Weekly Couples Therapy

Let’s find a way to reconnect.

  • Evidenced-Based Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT)

  • Reconnect with your partner

  • 53-minute session

  • Private Pay or Insurance

Our Approach

1

Slow Down the Cycle

  • Discover the negative patterns of interaction you get stuck in

  • Slow down your conversations and tap into the feelings that are beneath the surface

  • Make the cycle the enemy, not your partner

2

Risk and Reconnect

  • Test out the safety you’re creating together and share things you used to hide or protect

  • Experience your partner in a new way and remain present when they open up to you

  • Learn how to share your needs in a caring and direct way

3

Keep Your Love Alive

  • Revisit old hurts that have been put on hold and stay emotionally connected

  • Create new rhythms that safeguard and grow your bond with one another

  • Enjoy a bond with your partner that can handle anything life throws your way

Victor Mallin

MAC, MDiv, PLMHP

I’ll be the first one to say it: marriage is hard. And whether you’ve been together for 5 days or 50 years, sometimes we need a third-party to wisely and playfully jump into the mix of things.

I want to be your new therapist dance coach and help you and your partner slow down those maddening cycles of disconnection so that you can find your way back to each other again.

Let’s find a way to reconnect.

Education

  • Bachelor’s of Music Education, University of Kansas (‘11)

  • Master of Arts in Counseling, Covenant Seminary (‘19)

  • Master of Divinity, Covenant Seminary (‘19)

Experience

  • 1,000+ hours of therapy every year

  • 8+ years of working with individuals, couples and groups in a ministry context

  • Ordained minister in the Presbyterian Church in America

  • Provisionally Licensed Mental Health Practitioner in the State of Nebraska (License #: 13109)

Training

  • Effective Trauma Care Training, Dr. Dan Allender, PhD (Spring ‘19)

  • Emotionally Focused Therapy: Externship, Dr. Robert Allan, PhD, LMFT, LPC (Spring ‘23)

  • Emotionally Focused Therapy: Core Skills, Dr. Robert Allan, PhD, LMFT, LPC (Fall ‘23 to Spring ‘24)

Let’s find a way to reconnect.